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Fans of the Golden Bachelor accused Mel Owens of being an “expert gaslighter” during Wednesday night’s finale.<\/p>\n
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In the last episode, the\u00a066-year-old former NFL star\u00a0was down to two women: Cindy Cullers and Peg Munson. However, at the beginning of the finale, Cindy made Mel’s decision easier when she decided to leave after Mel was not ready to commit to marriage. Cindy, 60, was ready for marriage, and Mel seemed hesitant, having mentioned that he could propose in two years. During the finale, which included an\u00a0after the final rose ceremony\u00a0segment, the show reunited Cindy and Mel to discuss their breakup.<\/p>\n
The conversation was filled with tension between Mel and Cindy. Viewers watching at home did not like how Mel handled the conversation and felt as if he was gaslighting her. According to\u00a0Middle Georgia State University, “the modern definition of gaslighting is a psychological manipulation technique in which a person tries to convince someone that their reality is untrue.”<\/p>\n
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s ‘spiteful’ statement aimed at entire royal family\u00a0<\/strong>Queen Camilla’s one-word whisper to Kate at Remembrance Day service exposed by lipreader\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n On X formerly Twitter, a person wrote, “And the #GoldenBachelor is an expert gaslighter! #lame.” A second person said, “Is he gaslighting her right now? So everything would have changed if she went to the Fantasy Suite?”<\/p>\n Mel keep saying that he and Cindy didn’t have time\u00a0(Image: ABC)<\/p>\n Another said, “OhMiGosh\u2026.Mel is such a gaslighting piece of s–t\u2026.!” A fourth said, “I can\u2019t believe how deliberately Mel is making Cindy\u2019s disappointment Cindy\u2019s fault.”<\/p>\n Their conversation started with Cindy admitting that she thought Mel was the one and was “disappointed” that Mel had gotten that far without telling her he wasn’t ready for a commitment to her and nor to all the other contestants. She asked when he knew he wasn’t ready.<\/p>\n Mel claimed he was ready and said that their conversation wasn’t finished, and his heart and head weren’t there yet. He said they still had the Fantasy Suites, which he said Cindy was not prepared for. He said the Fantasy Suites, not only a place for intimacy but talking, would have given them a lot more time. He reiterated that they never got there.”<\/p>\n Cindy left when Mel didn’t seem like was committed to marriage\u00a0(Image: ABC)<\/p>\n The retired biomedical engineer agreed they didn’t get there and explained why. Cindy said, “I wasn’t sure I wanted you to lead me to the Fantasy Suites when you couldn’t lead in the relationship.” She added that he spoke more to host Jesse Palmer than to her.<\/p>\n Mel doubled down on how they didn’t have time and “didn’t get there to ask those questions.” He said there are things they could said behind closed doors and without the cameras. Mel argued that Cindy “only wanted a proposal” and had forgotten that another person was present. He continued to say, they can’t “leapfrog” over that person, and if he had said that he wanted to propose to her, it would have been “over.”<\/p>\n Mel told Cindy that he doesn’t operate in a “leap of faith” way, so he doesn’t go from “there” to getting married. Cindy replied that “that’s fair” and how she “operates differently” from him, and that they were “aligned.” She elaborated how the situation “took her by surprise” that they had gotten so far before she “saw it.”<\/p>\n The two talked about their break-up\u00a0(Image: ABC)<\/p>\n Mel said to Cindy that he wasn’t trying to get her to the Fantasy Suite after she had said that a “greater price was paid” to get her to the Fantasy Suite. Mel insisted he was trying to get her there, but only wanted to talk and said it was her option.<\/p>\n Cindy said she had learned enough, and she was in it for the commitment at the end, but didn’t feel like she was going to get it from Mel. She stressed how she didn’t need a commitment then, but how Mel had said to her that there wasn’t going to be a commitment and he wasn’t going to take a “leap of faith.”<\/p>\n She told Mel that she wasn’t asking him to commit to her, and she was “well aware” that Peg was also there. Mel said to Cindy that she wanted the commitment before the process, and his “heart wasn’t there.”<\/p>\n Mel once more said that they never got there, and that Cindy decided to leave, which was her “prerogative.” Mel added that his feelings toward Cindy were straightforward. He went on to say that Cindy asked him to take a leap of faith, but he doesn’t go from “knowing a person and getting married.” He told Cindy that she wanted to get married without the time in between.<\/p>\n Cindy and Peg were the final two women before the finale\u00a0(Image: Getty)<\/p>\n Cindy said she was a “wise woman” and knew there would be no wedding at the end of the show. She just had hope for a commitment and “taking this fairytale to its happily ever after.”<\/p>\n Mel claimed she wanted to skip ahead and get married. Cindy gave him an example that she wasn’t; she said she was willing to move to\u00a0California\u00a0(live separately) so they can pursue a life together as “there’s no rush.” Mel interrupted her, saying, That doesn’t interest me, though.”<\/p>\n Their conversation concluded with Cindy telling Mel that she really loved him so much and just wants him to be happy. Mel responded with, “Likewise”. Cindy told Jesse she learned so much from this journey, which has made her realize she is ready, and her person is “out there.”<\/p>\n Earlier this year,\u00a0Todd Chrisley<\/strong>\u00a0received a pardon from the President. However,\u00a0Patricia Altschul<\/strong>\u00a0is a tougher sell. Unlike POTUS, this\u00a0Southern Charm\u00a0star refuses to absolve Todd of his verbal crimes. Instead, this queen honey bee is standing ten wealthy toes down, adamant that Charleston is not a place for a \u201cfelon\u201d like Todd.<\/p>\n Todd and Patricia are the reality feud I never saw coming.\u00a0Their tiny tit for tat\u00a0started after Todd\u2019s release from prison. \u201cDuring the [post-prison] press conference, I had stated that we are doing a hotel and it\u2019s going to be near Charleston, South Carolina,\u201d Todd explained. In response, Patricia said, \u201cWell, there goes the neighborhood.\u201d<\/p>\n Well, Todd did not like that. So, he made several jests about Patricia, which mainly focused on her older age and her finances. Overall, it was gross.<\/p>\n So, recently clapping back via\u00a0Decider, Pat quipped, \u201cHe\u2019s very irrelevant. I said four words\u2014there goes the neighborhood \u2014 and he went on, and he did a whole program about me. It was just a comment in passing.\u201d Nevertheless, Patricia stands by her original stance, saying, \u201cWe just don\u2019t need any more\u00a0felons in Charleston.\u201d<\/p>\n Todd and his wife,\u00a0Julie Chrisley, were indicted on charges of wire fraud, conspiracy to commit bank fraud, and conspiracy to defraud the United States back in 2019. They swore they were innocent. Yet, they were still found guilty. In all,\u00a0The Chrisleys: Back to Reality\u00a0stars received a combined 19 years in federal prison, but thanks to their pardons, they walked out of their prison cells for good in May of this year.<\/p>\n And now, Ms. Pat wants them to heed her words and not walk toward\u00a0her in Charleston.<\/p>\n Southern Charm Season 11 premieres on November 19, 2025, at 9 p.m. ET\/PT on Bravo. New episodes are available to stream the next day on Peacock, or Hayu in Canada, the UK, and Ireland.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Fans of the Golden Bachelor accused Mel Owens of being an “expert gaslighter” during Wednesday night’s finale. 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